Creating meaningful ceremonies that honor your love story, values, and spiritual journey
Your Love Deserves a Ceremony as Unique as Your Story
At Table San Diego, we believe every love story is sacred. Whether you’re Christian, multi-faith, spiritual-but-not-religious, or come from diverse faith backgrounds, we’re honored to witness and celebrate your commitment in a way that authentically reflects who you are as a couple.
Our Approach to Wedding Ceremonies
While our practice has Christian roots, we’re committed to meeting folks exactly where they’re at on their spiritual journey. We specialize in inclusive, personalized wedding ceremonies that:
- Honor all couples – centering BIPOC couples, LGBTQ+ partnerships, and people of all faith backgrounds or no religious affiliation
- Blend traditions meaningfully – incorporating cultural and religious elements alongside other spiritual practices, cultural traditions, and personal values when desired
- Center your values – from social justice to environmental stewardship to family heritage
- Welcome all guests – creating space where everyone feels seen and valued regardless of their beliefs or background
- Tell your unique story – crafting ceremonies that reflect your journey together and the communities that have shaped you
Our Wedding Officiant Packages
Package A: Day-of Wedding Officiant
$300 – $800 (sliding scale)
Perfect for couples who want professional officiant services with personalized touches:
Included:
- Two 30-minute planning meetings (virtual or in-person)
- Customized ceremony reflecting your values and traditions
- Pre-ceremony coordination on wedding day
- Professional ceremony officiation
- Marriage license signing and filing
- Inclusive, welcoming approach for all guests
Package B: Comprehensive Pre-Marital Support + Officiant
Package A + $50-$200 per session (sliding scale)
Ideal for couples seeking deeper preparation and relationship strengthening:
Everything in Package A, plus:
- Up to 7 pre-marital consultation sessions (1 hour each)
- Topics include: Communication skills, Conflict resolution, Financial planning, Family dynamics, Spiritual compatibility, Life goals alignment, and more
- Flexible scheduling over 3-6 months
- Take-home resources and exercises
- Ongoing support leading up to your wedding day
Package C: Custom Services
Tailored pricing based on your needs
For unique circumstances such as:
- Destination wedding coordination
- Multi-cultural or interfaith ceremony design
- Extended family consultation
- Vow renewal ceremonies
- Post-wedding relationship support
Our Sliding Scale Commitment
We believe financial barriers shouldn’t prevent couples from accessing meaningful wedding services. Our sliding scale pricing considers your individual circumstances:
Consider paying less if you:
- Support dependents or have significant debt
- Receive public assistance or have medical expenses
- Face immigration-related costs or limited income
- Are community organizers or returning citizens
Consider paying more if you:
- Own property or have investments
- Have family financial support or higher earning power
- Travel recreationally or have discretionary income
- Recognize privilege in education, race, or class background
Why Choose Table San Diego?
- Authentically Inclusive: We’re not just “LGBTQ+ friendly” – we’re actively affirming. Our approach centers justice, celebrates diversity, and creates genuinely welcoming space for all couples and their families.
- Multi-Faith Competent: Our officiant has deep experience working with couples from diverse spiritual backgrounds, skillfully weaving together Christian elements with other faith traditions, cultural practices, and personal beliefs.
- Justice-Centered Values: We believe love is love, and we’re committed to ceremonies that reflect values of equity, environmental care, and community healing.
- Personalized Service: No cookie-cutter ceremonies. We take time to understand your story, your values, and your vision to create something uniquely yours.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do we need to be Christian to work with you? Absolutely not! We welcome couples of all faith backgrounds and those with no religious affiliation. We’ll work with you to create a ceremony that feels authentic to your beliefs.
Can you incorporate multiple religious traditions? Yes! We have experience blending Christian elements with Jewish, Buddhist, Indigenous, Islamic, and other spiritual traditions in respectful, meaningful ways.
Do you perform LGBTQ+ weddings? Yes, with joy and celebration! We’re proud to affirm love in all its forms and have extensive experience with LGBTQ+ couples and families.
What if our families have different comfort levels with inclusive language? We’re skilled at creating ceremonies that honor diverse family backgrounds while staying true to your values. We’ll work together to find language that feels authentic to you while remaining respectful to all guests.
Can you travel for destination weddings? Yes! We offer destination wedding services as part of our custom Package C. Travel costs are additional.
Ready to Begin Planning Your Ceremony?
We’d love to learn about your love story and discuss how we can create a meaningful ceremony that celebrates your commitment. Fill out the form below or send an email to hello@tablesandiego.org.
